Update, Dan is doing much better. That doesn't mean we are out of the woods! I think we will now become official "Forrest Dwellers". Remember this isn't our first Forrest Fire, Dan's stroke 5 years ago was a huge wake up call, and an opportunity to build lifelong memories. This last stroke caught us all off guard.
Kelly, is conflicted like all moms who have children and are being caregiver to their mate. It is natural to not want to leave your spouses/significant others side. I am sure I was judged harshly for choosing to be 24/7 with Geoff. In my mind, I understood the gravity of his illness, just as Kelly does Dan. My dad is an amazing Grandfather, although strict at times, he loves all of his grand kids and is willing to do whatever it takes in order for Dan to recover. When he is watching the kids, Kelly can focus on Dan and know that the Boy's are completely safe. That is a lot when other stresses are pressing.
This is one of those times when your "Mommy" instincts kick in and you do what you need to. Support a friend or family member dealing with this kind of pressure. Ask to take the kids overnight, go the extra mile. You just may one day be facing something this horrific and need to call on family and friends.
People often ask what can I do? Give them something to do! It isn't rude, if they offer.
Kelly; keep your head up and eyes forward. We are all gonna look back and be grateful...
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